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"Attitude is Everything". ~2011 Diva Principle

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Where Is He?


Ladies, 10 Ten Places to meet Mr. New Cutie:

I was reading Essence magazine today and there is a nice article on Dating. In the Dating Guide, they list the Top 10 places to meet men this summer. Here it goes:

#1 Handyman Workshop - take a home improvement workshop
#2 Give back to your Community - plenty of single men volunteer within communities
#3 Little League Games - Check out the coach or the single dads
#4 Head to the Gym - get your workout on!
#5 Step into the STRIP CLUB -
#6 Join a Political Campaign
#7 Witness a Wedding - most single guys who friends get hitched; might be ready
Embrace your inner Artist - visit your museum and if you see an attractive guy;
ask him the intrepetation of the exhibit.
#9 Attend Summer Festivals
#10 Bookstores

Supposely, these are the top 10 spots to find Mr. New Cutie. Don't know, guess its worth checking?

16 comments:

Real Talk said...

Sounds more like a list of "Where To Find Desperate Bitches". A Real Lady gives off a vibe that draws a Real Man to her. She doesn't need to do anything but make herself available. Remember We attract who we are, not what we want.

Korry said...

He could be right in front of you.

The Diva Principle said...

Damn Real Talk:

Tell me something? Why is it that when a women is looking "wanting" a REAL man, she somehow gets labeled as a "Bitch" or a "Hoe"? Tell me, cause I need to know.

For real, REAL TALK; that comment was truly unnecessary and totally disrepectful.

I do agree with you though, that you attract who you are. A woman (lady) making herself available doesn't mean she is sitting around waiting.

The Top 10 places to meet Mr. Cutie, doesnt mean she is out there stalking or prowling either.

Example. Out of the Top 10; there are 5 areas of attraction for me. There would be no need for me to go to a Handyman workshop because I could care less about fixing or repairing. There would be no reason for me to attend a little league game because my damn kids are grown. But, I would however, spend 2 to 3 hours in a bookstore. I could be sitting in my favorite bookstore reading and minding my own business and will draw Mr. Cutie over. Does that make me a "Desperate Bitch"?

You can pick and choose what/who attracts you!

So, Real Talk please learn a little respect. A real women is looking for Real conversation and deeper appreciation.

You see, Not all women(ladies), who are ready to make themselves available to a real man are sitting around at home twiddling their thumbs.

Can you VIBE with that? :)))

bBlessed

Frankie said...

Real Talk doesn't know what he's talking about, ma. Women never deserve titles like Bitch or Hoe. Unless they are Bitches or Hoes. Do me a favor Stella? Make a post entitled, "How To Tell If A Woman Is A Bitch Or A Hoe" or "Times When It's OK To Call A Woman A Bitch Or A Hoe". I'd dig that. So would most men.

Korry said...

Stella.
Tell me, what's your top 5 places? Maybe, I'll draw myself to you??

James said...

It turns me on when I go to the grocery store and see plenty of attractive women strolling the aisles.
Yea; When you think about it I can relate to the top 10 places to meet. In a sense you know we men already do this, we just never labled it.
Stella; the book store would be on my top 3 list. If I am ever in there an notice a real lady; you can bet I will be drawn to her.
That's for damn sure.

The Diva Principle said...

Frankie,

Look for the Series...coming your way.

The Diva Principle said...

Top 5 Spots:
Community-love to serve
Gym-Work that Booty
Strip Club-Nauty me
Museum-inner creation
Bookstore-Knowledge is Power

plus one for the road Festivals.

Anonymous said...

So let me get this strait:
Just for example, go to a ball game to meet a man. Then you meet a man and he thinks you like ball games. Then he wants to drag your ass to a ball game all da damn time??? Then eventually your bored ass has to tell him you don't really like ball games. Then he says then why was you at the ball game? And you hafta say cuz i was trying to meet a man. Then all the sudden real talk is right and you look dumb and desparate. Thanks for the insight, but I'll stick to looking for a man at places I already like to be, and if he's not there right away, I'll be patient, instead of fake.

The Diva Principle said...

Ok anonymous,
Since you aren't too bright. Let me break it down another way.

1. The list of top 10; you choose what areas interest you! If you DON'T HAVE A KID TO GO AND WATCH A BALL GAME, THEN WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU GO....DUMMY
2. If you choose an area of top 10 that doesn't have any interest, then yeah dummy you are desparate.

Try reading before making your comments, the next time. here is what I said:
Example. Out of the Top 10; there are 5 areas of attraction for me. There would be no need for me to go to a Handyman workshop because I could care less about fixing or repairing. There would be no reason for me to attend a little league game because my damn kids are grown. But, I would however, spend 2 to 3 hours in a bookstore.

Now what you need to do is read beforew you comment or just keep showing how damn dumb you are!!!!!
damn

Kara said...

wow now stella startin to sound like one bitter ass biotch!

Anonymous said...

...well now that you are done tearing me a new one, you did not post that in your original blog, i just read back thru your other comments and that was your reply to Real Talk after that person pointed out how desperate those measures seemed. I apologize for obviously offending you. I'm now glad I remained anonymous, I wouldn't have wanted that GIANT chip on your shoulder to have fallen off and killed me!

The Diva Principle said...

Kara, your damn skippy I'm a bitch today. Got my reasons and lots of them.

Like MJB says, Just one of those days. don't take it personal. don't mean to take it out on you, jus one of them days.

The Diva Principle said...

Anonymous,
When blogging, that's why its important to read. You especially read when the author is commenting back.

Next time, before you go running off at the mouth, just pay attention and read. I'm not meaning to sound off, but Im keeping it real.

You are absoultely correct. I got a big chip on my shoulder today. And I need to apologize because you got the blunt of it.

I'm sorry for my bluntness and I really do mean it.

I maybe blocking all anonymous comments anyway. I personally would rather have names. If I lost you as a reader, you weren't meant to be here.

Just keepin it real and again, I apologize.

James said...

Just keep doing U gurl. Clowns are everywhere.

Keep your head up and DO YOU don't worry about the clowns.

Roberta said...

I'm thankful we live in a world today where people are entitled to their own opinions and we can voice them.

What people forget is how to voice those thoughts and opinions.

It's ok to disagree but we should have respect for one another in doing so. Calling people fake and dumb is ridiculous.

It's not ok to make comments regardless if agreeing or disagreeing at the expense of pulling down and disrespecting others.

I thought this post was about women looking for dudes, how and the hell we end up talking about respect is beyond me.