I Wonder

A male friend of mine stopped by to see me today. Haven't seen him in a long time. He still wants to holla, but really and truly; I got no time for dirt bags. Don't get me wrong, the brother is fine as hell. He dresses sweet, keeps a fresh cut and he's a chocolate flavor the kinda taste that I like. (smile)

As he walked away. I began to WONDER.
I thought about someone and I began to wonder about this other person.
I wonder does he even care about his image?
I wonder is he trying to self distruct himself?
I wonder why is his self image so low?
I wonder why does he hate himself?
I wonder why is he fasinated with trying to change a stripper/hoe into a housewife?
I wonder is he on this ego power trip?
I wonder does he hate women?

Then,
I wondered a little further:
I wonder does he know the chick that he bangs, she has already put his business out in the street?
I wonder, does he know that she is telling everyone she is cuffing him up to be her next victim?
I wonder does he know the chick thinks he is dumb and wierd doo?
I wonder does he know she has shown his DICK pictures to some young girls?
I wonder does he know she has even shown his text messages to them?
I wonder does he know that now the young girls that he interacts with are seeing nothing but his dick and forgetting he is a leader and their elder. That their laughing everytime he sees them?
I wonder, is this the lyfestyle he is building for himself and for his child?

After all that:
I wonder,
I wonder, should I even tell this man?
I wonder, would it even matter; would it make a difference giving him a heads up? Because Obviously, he feels some type of trust for the chick and thinks she isn't telling people.
I wonder, maybe he is that damn stupid?
I wonder, why the fuck should I even care? It's none of my business anyway.

I said, DIVA just Snap back!
Maybe this is the type of chick he needs. Maybe this chick will give him what he deserves.

I just wonder, I hope he is using at least 3 rubbers on this chick. Cause man o man, if he knew what I knew. Wow, he wouldn't even entertain or stomach the thought of her. That is, if he loved himself enough.

I wonder, and maybe someone can answer:
Why are we as people having such low self images and we aren't even concerned about the repercussions that follow our behaviors?
I wonder can anyone help me understand?