The Sneaky, Charming Jezzy

The Sneaky, Charming Jezebel
I found this article today and found it to be most appropiate. I wanted to share it with you, to help you and myself know when you are staring right at JEZZY so that you know how to deal with JEZZY.

Be bold enough to stand up to the JEZZY and understand you are up for a huge battle. For your sake and mine, don't let another JEZZY downplay you, steal, undermine or cast you away as a NOBODY!
Don't be fooled by the picture either, a JEZEBEL can also be a male! Just watch your back especially when dealing with mainstream people.
1. They gain power by removing and destroying those they are afraid of.

2. They are very subtle. They will take credit for the accomplishments of others, and have the others overlooked.

3. So “sweet,” deceitful, “timid,” “innocent,” “feminine,” and sneaky, they are able to fool and recruit others to join them. They can be very charming and charismatic. Their charm is learned behavior, and their “sincerity” is not sincere. They can use their charm to get into positions of authority, while not even being qualified for that position .

4. Quietly plans and trys to remove, and sweetly backstabs to get their way.. They will hold secret meetings behind their victims back to present their case. Of course, they do not see this as gossip, but label it as “sharing a concern.”

5. They are never wrong. To admit they are wrong would mean destruction of their artificial self image.

6. Instead of aggression, they draw on the compassion of others to win support. They become the false victims in a conflict while the true victim gets the blame.

7. They are narcissic. They are not sympathetic to their victims, and tend to play the role of victim themselves, in order to gain sympathy. This way the real victim is left stranded, and opposed by others if they ask for help.

8. They lie, and they know they are lying. Avoiding the truth, or intentionally acting to withhold truth is part of this. False picture is presented to others. Lying is necessary to protect mistakes they make, and blame on others.

9. Impulsive, failure to plan ahead. Their life is Chaotic most of the times.

10. Lack of remorse after hurting someone. They justify the harm.

11. Consistent irresponsibility.


***Note: When dealing with this situation of victim-hood, it is vital that a proper investigation is made to distinguish the real victim from the fake one. The real one will tell the truth. The Jezebel will be unfair and lie. Position or authority is not relevant.

Only character and proof, or lack of it, can tell the difference.