Diva's Weekly Principle:

"Attitude is Everything". ~2011 Diva Principle

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Men / Women


Men are told by society:
they always have to be strong and put on a tough exterior
to block out all sensitive "unmanly" feelings
It is drilled into men from birth
that they are leaders
that they must achieve
that they must succeed in a career
Men are judged their whole lives
by the power they have and how much money they earn
What a terrible burden this must be

men must be free from the pressure to always perform
and be the strong partner
They must learn to laugh and cry
and be honest about how they feel
They must not be judged by their position or their possessions
Ladies, back your man and be the pillar he needs you to be.

Women are told by society:
They must be responsible for their children and husband
and that their careers should not be important
that they should not strongly voice their opinions
and that they are guided by emotions
If women have a career, we are made to feel guilty at work
because we are not with our children
When attending to our children, we are made to feel guilty
because we are neither attending to the needs of our family nor our work
Its difficult as a women to balance work lyfe, home lyfe and family
We are made to feel guilty
whether it is motherhood, a career or balancing both
We must realise our role. Our role and our position is of importance.
Women must learn to delegate what they cannot do (for we are not Superwoman)
and share responsibilities with their partners
Ladies, we must not feel guilty for being a STRONG, WELL BALANCED woman.

The roles society has imposed on
Men and Women are very damanging
in order for men and women to understand each other better
we must understand why we sometimes do the things we do.
We should not feel pressure created by society. Let's learn to
relax, replenish and represent one another by our own standards and not
the standards placed on us by society.

Moral of the Story: Do Not Let Society Dictate Your Role In Lyfe, PLAY YOUR PART and Play it well.
bBlessed

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