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Okay, this one is pretty damn lenghly. I tried my best to take out some stuff, but honestly, it all needs to be said and read.

I'm speaking about a land and the steps you need to make the land grow. These same steps are needed in our walk of lyfe. Here we go:

On barren land, nothing is going to grow until you nourish the soul, till it, and plant seeds. Your life is like land waiting to be developed. It can grow anything you want once you have prepared yourself by nourishing your mind, body and spirit.

1. Prepare the Land

First clear and clean the infertile land. A cluttered environment is a reflection of a cluttered mind. Nothing can grow with trash covering it. Water, nutrients and sunshine cannot get to the seeds.

Make space for new and improved items, experiences, successes and people.

2. Nourish the Soil

Nothing can grow in soil that is lacking nutrients. Nourish your body, mind and soul. Strengthen yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and lay the foundation.

Strengthen your mind. Learn to enjoy being alone. Even go away on mini trips alone. It's the best time of getting to know yourself and get comfortable with being alone with yourself.

Try to expand your mind by reading. When you stop learning, you start dying. Develop resistance to past actions you have engaged in that you know are not productive to your life. Stop resisting change. Think of change as a gigantic box, covered in colorful wrapping paper adorned with a beautiful bow, holding something wonderful inside. Reconnect or strengthen your spiritual connection. This is an important one.

Work on healing, opening and bringing happiness into your heart. Heal your heart by forgiving those who have wronged you. Yep, heal yourself of the love pain. So what he cheated on you, so what he lied to you, so what he never cared about you. Build a bridge and get over it. This is where I am right now in lyfe. "emotional healing" do it
Not for him, but for you! They will face their own Creator and karma.

Open your heart to love. You deserve love and he is on his way. He is just one step closer! There is no need to fear love because of bad choices you have made in the past. You choose to be with him and he mistreated you, it's ok. Lesson Learned. Grow and move on.
Ladies, The past does not equal nor does it make your future.

You cannot give or receive love, until you can love yourself. Treat yourself as a cherished child to whom you provide the best, protect, spoil, pamper, nurture, encourage and love.

Happiness is not found in or through other people, or outside of yourself. Simply decide to be happy right now. You truly have to be happy and content with you and who you are as a person (flaws and all).

Ladies, its the HERE and NOW phase of lyfe.
There is something to be happy about (being alive, being healthy, having sight, having curbs, having thighs, nice booty, small booty, having dreams, your children, your parents, living in the United States).

We have So much to live and strive for, and there's more than just him.

Make your heart smile every day, at least once when you awake and before you go to sleep. Smile. Laugh.

3. Plant Seeds

Choose what you are going to grow. Choose. You make your own choices. Select seeds that will produce plants to enhance your life.

If you want a better job, look for advancement opportunities through your current employer, investigate educational possibilities that would lead to a better job, and/or start searching newspaper and online for better jobs you are currently qualified to do. A negative environment can be changed immediately.

If you want a better relationship, let go of your current unfulfilling, selfish relationship that keeps you miserable. Let it go. Treat yourself with respect by upholding your standards, morals and values, become the partner you seek. Spend your valuable time with the caliber of people you want in your life. You be your own partner. Get your dignity back and thrive on, stop letting him mistreat and disrespect you!

4. Water the Seeds

Continue to water the seeds you have sowed on a regular schedule, in order to grow healthy and vibrant plants. Enhance the seeds you have planted by expecting them to grow, taking actions to help them grow, and being patient while they grow. Continue caring for and strengthening your mind, body and soul. Love and pamper yourself in every way you possibly can. Strengthen your connection.

5. Harvest Time: Reap What You Have Sowed
Take that dude up on his invitation for a date. Let him take you out. Let him wine and dine you. Acutally date around. Spend time out on several different dates. You don't have to sleep with them all to go out and have fun. Are you on the night club mailing list, or the NAACP member mailing list? Do you subscribe to a gossip magazine, or a financial planning magazine? Do you watch soap operas and reality shows, or the history and learning channels? If you can, take a trip. Go away and have some fun. Do you. Meet Newness.

Your life today is a result of the seeds you planted or failed to plant yesterday. The seeds you plant now are your future. You will be at the mercy of environment and other people with life simply happening to you, if you don’t plant any seeds. If you plant defective seeds, your life will become plagued with illness (physical, emotional, spiritual and financial). Plant healthy seeds, in well prepared and nutrient rich soil, water regularly, and watch your dreams blossom right before your eyes!

Ladies, thrieve on. You deserve it. Go and have a Stella Moment when you need it!